How to get a relationship offline

Get out of your house!

Easier said than done sometimes, but the more you leave your house, the more of

a chance for you to meet someone. You never know where or when you could meet someone. I met my Ex at the coffee shop and that relationship survived until we both wanted different things in life.

When you are out, sit at the bar or an open place in the club.

Whether you dine solo like me or hang out with friends at the bar it better wherever you sitting to get noticed and talk to people. it’s better to sit up at the open bar which is the easiest way to start up a conversation with people and get a potential date with your significant other.

Become a regular customer at your favorite spots.

I know a handful of places around my city that I go with my coworker and the staff recognize us. I get introduced to other colleagues at that spot as well. Becoming a regular customer at your favorite spot It’s also a great way to meet people. Be willing to put yourself out there. Presently dating App is getting weirder by the day.

A Mutual friend Setup

I met my Bae through a mutual girlfriend setup. Take advantage of your colleagues who asked you to hang out with them. You might get introduced to someone who might be interested in you doing your outing. I once give my single friend number to my cousin and today they are happily married for 4 years.

Gym

People often go to the gym to meet people but I haven’t done it but some folks told me it actually works for them. So hey if you like the gym, I will suggest you go for it.

Church

It might sound weird but I found my first love at our church event. Meeting people in the church is a good way because it brings out the similarities between y’all.

Grocery store

Yes, grocery store lol… I get thousands of numbers each time I go to do grocery shopping. If you buying Apple for example, and you see someone you might like, start a conversation with that person about what they know about that particular brand of Apple or any random items.

If you are still in school, I will suggest you join a university group club and be an active member.

Participate in group activities and interact with your fellow students. Interact with your fellow students and you will be surprised how many college romance that lasts for eternity. Also, Date someone at your job site lol Sometimes it might work out but it is not necessarily okay to do so because of your employer policy. I will suggest if you both are mature enough to handle your relationship I will suggest you go for it. I know several relationships at previous and current jobs that actually work out and they are doing great.

-Try library and movie theater

⁃ Outdoor jogging/ parks

⁃ Travel / go on vacation

If you want to find someone offline and not on a dating app, you have to be willing to put yourself out there and put in the effort.