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  • MARRIAGE IS SCARY

    MARRIAGE IS SCARY

    Love is a beautiful thing. It feels good to love and be loved in return. Those butterflies feelings whenever you see him or when he calls you, it’s heavenly .

    I love relationships but I’m not sure if I love being married. The thought of it freaks me out.

    Marriage is Scary

    THE LONGEST DURATION I’VE EVER DATED SOMEONE WAS 2 YEARS AND IT WAS AN INTERESTING RELATIONSHIP ALTHOUGH IT HAD ITS OWN PROBLEMS.

    Marriage is forever.. you wake up, eat, sleep, shower and virtually do everything together with just one person “all your life”. All your life!!

    IT SCARES ME BECAUSE I’M A WEIRDO. SOMETIMES I FEEL I MIGHT WAKE UP ONE MORNING AND FILE FOR A DIVORCE FOR NOTHING SAKE, I FEEL I MIGHT START HATING HIM FOR NO REASON, I MIGHT GET BORED AND I MIGHT SNAP AT OUR KIDS AT EVERY GIVEN OPPORTUNITY…

    It’s kinda weird and scary right?

    Don’t blame me, marriage is one of the most important decisions you make it in life and it’s very okay to be scared.

    Marriage is Scary?

    AFTER WEIGHING MY THOUGHTS AND FEARS, I DECIDED TO GET MARRIED TO MY FRIEND. SOMEONE THAT I CAN RELATE WITH ON ALL LEVELS, A GOSSIP PARTNER AND A PLAYFUL PERSON LIKE ME. SOMEONE THAT CAN TAKE ALL MY EXCESSES AND TANTRUMS AND STILL LOVE ME REGARDLESS.

    In most cases, love dies but friendship is the only ship that keeps sailing.

    No matter how boring marriage gets, being with a friend will surely make it an interesting ride.

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    2 Comments

    1. Lynda Jane
      August 2, 2019 / 12:00am08

      Wow I feel like you wrote this piece specifically for me. The fear is overwhelming and I am to choose between someone I love and someone that loves me. I still haven’t made a choice. Please advise me

      • monica
        Author
        October 7, 2019 / 12:00pm10

        ?ℎ??? ???

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